A community of ambitious, exhausted, brilliant mothers who refuse to accept that "having it all" means doing it all—alone.
Every night you fall into bed with a mental list of everything you didn't get to. The invisible workload never stops. Your brain never rests. And everyone thinks you have it together.
Your partner tries but can't understand the weight of it. You've stopped even trying to explain the 50 browser tabs running in your head at all times.
When you take time for yourself, you feel selfish. When you're at work, you feel like you're failing your kids. When you're with your kids, you're thinking about work. There's no winning.
Who were you before you became Mom? Before you became the default parent? Before your identity became "the person who remembers everything"? You can barely remember.
"Just do less." But you can't just not make the dentist appointment or the doctor's appointment. The advice from people who don't carry your load makes you want to scream. You don't need tips. You need actual help.
You're tired of saying sorry for wanting both the career and the life. For having ambition. For being "too much" or "not enough." You're done shrinking.
Here's what happens in your brain when you're carrying the invisible mental load alone—and why connecting with other women who truly understand isn't just nice, it's neurologically essential.
Your threat-detection center relaxes when you feel understood and validated. The constant low-level panic? It eases when other moms say "I feel that too."
Stress hormones decrease through social connection and empathy. Being in community with women who get it literally lowers your stress response.
You're not alone in problem-solving—shared understanding lightens the cognitive load. Your executive function gets a break when you realize you're not uniquely failing.
The "bonding hormone" activates, creating feelings of safety and connection. This is why you feel lighter after talking to another mom who truly gets it.
This is why community matters. You're not just "complaining"—you're engaging in neural co-regulation. When other moms say "I feel that too," your nervous system literally calms down. You're reminded you're not failing—you're facing a systemic problem that deserves systemic solutions.
This isn't just a Slack channel. This is a movement of women reclaiming themselves through in-person experiences that restore what motherhood and burnout have taken.
"Finally, friends who don't think I'm crazy for using AI to meal plan."
We're building local gatherings in major cities where ai moms™ meet quarterly for dinners, workshops, and the kind of conversations you can't have anywhere else.
What happens: Quarterly dinners at beautiful restaurants where we talk about AI automation, career moves, the impossibility of school pickup logistics, and the books we're reading. Skill-share workshops where one mom teaches the group her superpower (negotiation tactics, prompt engineering, setting boundaries, whatever). Spontaneous chat about whatever is on your mind.
Current cities: NYC, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Boston, Chicago, Austin, Seattle, DC. (Your city next? Let us know.)
"Self-care that actually works, not just face masks and bubble baths."
Quarterly virtual wellness sessions (with occasional in-person pop-ups) that address the mind-body impact of chronic stress and invisible labor.
What we cover: Somatic practices to release stored stress. Breathwork to regulate your nervous system. Movement that feels good, not punishing. Sleep protocols that work when you're waking up at 3am with racing thoughts. Nutrition for sustained energy when you're running on fumes. Therapy-informed tools for processing the rage and grief of carrying it all.
Led by: Therapists, somatic practitioners, nutritionists, and sleep specialists who understand working motherhood—not the wellness industrial complex that tells you to "just relax."
"Where working mothers shape the future of AI—and our own futures."
An annual 2-day conference bringing together ai moms™ for learning, networking, and celebrating how far we've come.
What happens: Keynotes from AI leaders and working mother pioneers. Workshops on advanced automation, career pivots, entrepreneurship, and using AI for professional advancement. Networking that actually leads to friendships and business opportunities. Panel discussions on the future of work, parenting, and technology. An evening gala where we dress up and toast to retiring from Chief Everything Officer.
Why it matters: This is where career pivots happen, business partnerships form, and you realize what's actually possible when you're surrounded by women who've already done it. Meet the CMO who pivoted to AI consulting, the Google exec launching her startup, the mom who used AI to get promoted twice in one year—and leave knowing your next move.
Cutting-edge AI education that keeps you ahead of the curve. Monthly workshops on new tools, advanced techniques, and career-building skills. You're not just using AI—you're mastering it.
Real friendships with women who understand. Virtual daily connection plus in-person experiences that restore your sense of self. This is your tribe.
Evidence-based practices to heal from burnout. Neuroscience-backed tools to regulate your nervous system. Permission to prioritize yourself without guilt.
Daily connection with women who understand
New AI tools, advanced techniques, career-building skills
Register for dinners and experiences as they're announced
Priority access when registration opens
Join the January founding member bootcamp and get lifetime community access—including IRL experiences, monthly workshops, and a sisterhood of women who refuse to do it all alone.
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